My 40s were
perhaps my most innovative sexually – I read widely about sexual practices and was
always the one with the new ideas. I thought endlessly about different ways of
having sex.
ANYWAY, one
of the things I missed post menopause was the loss of the drive to
discover and accomplish new things sexually. I no longer felt as driven to
read articles on sexual technique and if we did the same thing time after time,
I was very happy.
BUT…the
other day I realised I was reading widely on relationship development
and was dreaming about closeness and connection.
NOW … post
menopause - I am driven to explore and innovate in the areas of intimacy and
sensuality. I'd just not recognised my focus had changed!
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| A beautiful and unexpected flower - ornamental cardamon! |
After I've been there, done that it came down to the quality of intimate moments rather than how many different vaginas I can penetrate. We all need that experimental phase where we cut loose and do whatever or whomever makes us horny at the moment.
ReplyDeleteOnce that craving subsides a good intimate relationship with one special person is so nice.
bj
I have learned to slow down, sex feels so good, why would anyone want to rush through it. I also emjoy cuddling and embracing more.
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