Candice (providing clear view for comparison purposes): Are my breasts an equal size?
Awesome (tersely & slightly distracted): Of course they are! They're perfect!
Often people around us will not notice the changes and improvements we make and we wonder why we bother. Recently I coloured out the silver highlights in my hair. It was a big step because I've never coloured my very long hair and did not want to damage it. Remember I am the long-hair-up-in-a-bun girl in real life. No one noticed except Awesome:
Candice (tentative): Did you notice my hair?
Awesome (sincerely): Yes I did - it looks nice! I'm sorry I did not mention it earlier - I was too busy dealing with ... (an urgent matter).
It's important to educate your partner about the changes you are experiencing and their possible impacts, as well as their potential role.
Candice (using teacher voice): Now that I am post menopause ....
Awesome (tersely): You can forget being post anything ....
His Awesomeness can be so totally cute and at the same time so very wise. I am very thankful to have him in my life. :-)
|There was a brief moment of sunshine during our current monsoonal weather ....|