Oh I do so love gentle, respectful, considerate...sexy, passionate and totally awesome men! Consent does not have to be boring or dithering! It can be ever so romantic and totally arousing!
Consent can be talking long hours about what you want to do or checking in while you are doing something or both! Baby would it be OK if I touched you there? ...I so love touching your skin! Do you like me touching you?.... Totally awesome verbal foreplay!
Rather than treading on feelings to rush ahead to a goal, it's so much better to respect each other's moving boundaries and enjoy the journey!